Friday, June 26, 2009

Will Michael Jackson's Baby Momma...

Be the one to care for his children now that he is no longer with us? Rest in Peace MJ!!! We love you! I am saddened by this loss, because MJ has touched many of our lives for so long. I am happy to have experienced his music, and genius!

But I can't help thinking about his children. He has been the one taking care of them, so in a way MJ has been a Baby Momma:) But will the children's mother step in, did MJ already have it arranged as to who would be the provider for these children? These are things to think about as a parent?

Do you as a parent have a living will and trust in place? What arrangements have you made for your children, or is this something that you have not thought about? Lets be honest with ourselves. As a parent there is nothing that we would not do for our children; so I am sure not knowing what would become of them after we pass on is a scary thought!

Would you feel comfortable with your child's father being the one raising your children? Do you have a child's father who would automatically step in and handle the bizness? What about those children whose father's are not in their lives? Have you thought about the effect it would have on your family? Do you have family members who would help out, keep the children together if there's more than one? What if you have more than one child by different men?

What about women in relationships with men who have children that they are raising, and there's no mom around? Would you step up if there was no one to care for their children if something happened to that man?

Men, could you see the woman you are with now, raising your child(ren) full-time with you if your baby momma passed on, or could no longer be there for whatever reason?

All I'm saying is, life is short and we don't know when our time is coming. So ask yourself, "Is My Bizness In Order?" Food for thought!

Peace and always Love.

1 comment:

  1. Seems like there were some or one (prob one disgruntled individual) from Facebook who thought the link to this post was offensive. I say this because when I went to post the link again I got a warning that some of the content in the blog was blocked by some or one user, and the word abuse was used. Not sure what that was about. My hope is that if someone has taken offense to whatever is in the above post they would let it be known by leaving their comment. After all, isn't that the purpose of a blog to share one's thoughts to evoke conversation. Of course everyone is not going to agree, and that is the wonderful thing about being unique individuals with choices, and the right to speak and to have an opinion.

    Now I don't know if it had to do with the fact that I mentioned Michael Jackson was a Baby Momma, since he was raising his children. It was just a reference. Obviously from how I started off this discussion, I have absolute respect and admiration for Michael. I love him, he is a true genius.

    But I can't help but wonder what will happen with his children. And yes, he has a Baby Momma, although he married the woman who had his first two children. Either way, MJ has a Baby Momma. Doesn't take anything away from his genius!

    So take it easy people, speak up and let your voice be heard:)


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