#LetsHaveAToast to the DoucheBag

#LetsHaveatoast to the douchebag, so this toast goes out to Dwight Howard! I'm sending this toast out to him based on an article I read in the Miami New Times which describes Dwight Howard suing his Baby Mama, Royce Reed, for over $500 milion dollars. So for that, he definitely deserves this toast! His suit alleges that Royce leaked personal information to the press; and since his attorneys placed a gag order on her in 2009, they feel she owes him this exorbitant amount of money. Read the full story here:

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My reasons for writing this have nothing to do with taking sides, or blasting him; But is merely to express my feelings on a matter that involves not only him and Royce Reed, but their child. What message is this sending to the child (who may or may not be old enough to understand any of this) but we know that with the Internet, everything lives on.

This is not about the money, but more about his ego and the need/ability to control! As an athlete this man is in the public eye so why is he tripping; he should be use to people talking about him. And besides, this is her life as well, so she should be able to speak about what she wants, as well as post pics of her child. Currently, whatever his feelings are for Royce, this lawsuit is ludacris and he knows she does not have the money. Lets just say he gets the money...then what?

Get over yourself Mr. Howard, and worry about more important things like being a father and learning how to co-parent with your child's mother. Whatever Royce was saying before which led him to place a gag order last year, must have had some truth to it. Trust, whatever she had to say came from some personal experience.

Dwight, you have a child with this woman, stop running to the courts, and handle your own damn business! Growth and change can be uncomfortable, but don't let money and status stop you from doing what's right. We have to set examples for our children, regardless. Children learn about love from their parents. How can you teach him/her about love, and have no love for the woman who bore your child? Life is too short, families are suffering, due to all the drama going on between baby mamas and baby daddys; enough with this madness!

Problems occur between parents who are together and those who aren't, but we must always remember that at the end of the day, it's about the child(ren).
Come on, Can't We All Just Get Along:) Make a choice to do and be better. ~

#TeamBabyMomma #22