tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021584014477319000.post6428226044506823347..comments2023-03-23T10:03:22.453-04:00Comments on Baby Momma Love: His Baby MamaTeam Baby Mommahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11218758493067160277noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021584014477319000.post-64268182566159401522012-06-21T11:32:11.647-04:002012-06-21T11:32:11.647-04:00Sorry to hear that you are having a hard time wit...Sorry to hear that you are having a hard time with your boyfriend's baby momma situation. <br /><br />But lets look at this from a realistic stand point; if you are in a loving relationship with this man and he is treating you good, not disrespecting you, and handling his business with his child - meaning not bringing drama into your world i.e. his baby momma calling you - talking 'ish, telling you they are still together, or calling about senseless things when he is chilling with you, then there shouldn't be a problem. <br /><br />I'm not saying ignore your feelings, but if you want a man that does not have a child then you have to decide if getting in a relationship with a man who has a child was the best thing for you to do. Clearly, this is really bothering you. YOU have some questions that you need to ask yourself and be honest with yourself. Can you move forward, lets say he asks you to marry him...with these feelings about him already having a child?<br /><br />Everything you mentioned had to do with you...you stated "I would have to deal with the fact that I will never be his first child's mother." This statement shows that you have to really decide if this is the best situation for you, because it's obvious that you have envisioned your life a certain way with regards to marraige and having children.<br /><br />I wish you luck! Be true to what you want for yourself, and be sure of what you can or cannot handle, it's ok to be true to YOU:) Don't throw something good away out of fear. I know you will make the best decision for you moving forward.<br /><br />Peace and Love.<br /><br />Baby Momma #22Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021584014477319000.post-30896730200613820772012-05-08T18:16:28.884-04:002012-05-08T18:16:28.884-04:00I am having a hard time with my Boyfriend's ba...I am having a hard time with my Boyfriend's babymama situation, I love him so much, but I cannot get over the fact that he impregnated a woman before me that will be in our lives forever! My children will be second and I will have to deal with the fact I will NEVER be his first child's mother. This hurts, especially when I tried to be so careful with my intimate partners and especially not have children before I was married.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021584014477319000.post-72097121582209101142010-12-21T22:49:39.253-05:002010-12-21T22:49:39.253-05:00Nice blog and very informative too. I am sure u wi...Nice blog and very informative too. I am sure u will get a lot of followers, not only from moms but pas too. Success!!!!Neneng Tariganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01246751871415766917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021584014477319000.post-84686429308895227102010-09-21T19:16:00.002-04:002010-09-21T19:16:00.002-04:00I totally agree with you #22! In 2010, it's a...I totally agree with you #22! In 2010, it's about being the best you can be in any given situation. I think that women in general are quick to think the worst of one another -- especially if we feel that our realtionship is threatened.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com